It’s been a long pause not written anything. Flood…flood…flood…..disaster…disaster…disaster……these are things which has taken place in Thailand and still not cure in some part Thailand.
Imagine! Your house is full of water for more than couples of month and there is nowhere to go and nothing to eat. Can you survey?
Don’t imagine now, it’s happened in Thailand. The flood continues more than 3 months, which is quite shocking to see and hear. It’s been really sad and disappointing to see such a disaster. The ancestor believes that this is the worst flood effect in the country compare to old one.
In such a disaster, the number of inquisitive questions arises in our mind. Whom to blame or whom to question?
Number of people has been questioning themselves and others. What must be the reason behind the flood? Some blames and criticize the government, some blames society, and others on natural calamities. Is there anyone who can see or knock own mistake?
Nobody opens the door of deeper cause behind the disaster. Anyway, when something happens, why should we blame someone or worry about the past. Instead of why don’t we understand the cause and look ahead for better world.
Some says, “Crises and disasters often bring great spiritual blessings and purification–if we are open to change and willing to learn from them. And this is the challenge which we personally experienced”.
In the spiritual traditions of the East, it is said that we must “cross the burning grounds three times” to purify our physical, emotional and mental bodies, surrendering everything to God. But we never expected to have to experience this literally…
Meanwhile, there are certain lessons of Buddha’s teachings where we can reflect, after happening such a disaster in our life;
1. Nothing remains forever. What did the Buddha teach? The physical world is impermanent.
2. Don’t detach with material possessions.. There’s something incredibly powerful in seeing all your possessions turn to ashes in 15 minutes. Everything that seemed so real and permanent. Everything we collected or worked so hard to create, everything that took time and/or money to accumulate.
3. live more fully in the present. Disasters can be purifying and freeing. Losing everything helped lighten us up–we needed a lot less to live than we thought. We could begin anew and do everything better than before. We could go in new directions, unbounded by the past. We could build on more solid foundations, whether literally or symbolically.
4. Renew your faith in Spiritual. We realized it was only a house and possessions we lost. We still had our family and friends and spiritual life. “The real house is in here, in our hearts.”
5. Open your heart. As the type of people who are always helping others, we had to learn how to receive. All across the country, people were generous and helpful, giving us money, clothes, equipment, etc. Although we lived in a spiritual community, we found that community is everywhere. Crisis draws out the best in people–their compassion and their generosity.
6. Everything you give away will come back to you in some form. Clothes we had given away to a free boutique were there for us when we needed them.
7. Meditate on the deeper meaning of the disaster. Adversity can be a blessing in disguise that strengthens us. We realized that we were relying on our house for economic security in a changing world. It’s easy to get so focused on building wonderful buildings, and forget they are only forms. Let’s not be fooled by the shimmering illusion of security in our materialistic world. It seems to promise so much, but always leaves us dissatisfied, searching for more.
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